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NoMoreKickingCans
Posted: 02 September 2023 20:40:35(UTC)

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Quote:
I recommend this product it does work
I recall using it once on my first house to repair a window frame, have you used it with plywood then ?

I had some floor joist ends with a little wet rot but the SE said to cut them out (which has now been done) and when I mentioned wood hardener he was a bit dismissive.
NoMoreKickingCans
Posted: 02 September 2023 21:45:05(UTC)

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Sara G;278139 wrote:
NMKC, what kind of plywood is it? If it is marine plywood (as I think mine will be) then you may find that once the edges have dried out it is OK. Possibly any mold could be sprayed with something? Can you check what materials were specified on the BREGs drawing? If they have used the wrong type of plywood it's better to find out sooner rather than later. Building Control may be able to advise, if not the SE.

The plywood is made in China (as much of it is now) Diamond Plex 18mm Eucalyptus Grandis Face/Back, Eucalyptus core EN13986 EN314-2 Class 2 EN636-2 S average density 611Kg/m3. It is B/BB E1.

I don’t believe it is ‘marine ply’ and have been told the term ‘marine ply’ isn’t that meaningful and that ‘marine ply’ isn’t necessary for a roof deck. Plywood terms seem to have changed.

The deck structure was installed in November last year and insulated and covered with membrane in December/January. The membrane didn’t cover the edges which were to have almunium fascia etc. The builder showed zero interest in either protecting the exposed edges of the plywood, or in getting the fascia specified/made/installed. I therefore used some polythene to protect the edge but then used aluminium tape instead. Unfortunately damp seems to have got in behind the tape and then the tape has stopped it drying out. The tape has been on since march time. Ironically I was removing the tape to apply some preservative specified by the architect and have got a shock.

Anything other than drying out/cleaning/sanding/treating/mold killing/making good would seem a large problem. Only the outer 25mm or so is effected. The outer layer of ply has delaminated in a couple of spots.
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Sara G on 03/09/2023(UTC)
NoMoreKickingCans
Posted: 02 September 2023 22:03:28(UTC)

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What I realise now is I should have used something to seal the edge of the plywood rather than covering it. Of course why the hell I should have to do anything is beyond me - it should be the builder’s job but they are never interested in protecting anything.
Hilda Ogden
Posted: 03 September 2023 09:06:49(UTC)

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NoMoreKickingCans;278151 wrote:
Quote:
I recommend this product it does work
I recall using it once on my first house to repair a window frame, have you used it with plywood then ?

I had some floor joist ends with a little wet rot but the SE said to cut them out (which has now been done) and when I mentioned wood hardener he was a bit dismissive.

If the rot can be cut out, then it seems to me that's really the best solution. Providing it doesn't get wet again, of course.
Zach F
Posted: 03 September 2023 10:07:27(UTC)

Joined: 28/12/2020(UTC)
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You probably rubbed them up the wrong way with your tinfoil hat. Getting people to like you is key when they are working on your gaff. Sounds like you are at war with your builders and that never ends well as I’m sure you now realise.
Sara G
Posted: 03 September 2023 11:15:13(UTC)

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Zach F;278175 wrote:
You probably rubbed them up the wrong way with your tinfoil hat. Getting people to like you is key when they are working on your gaff. Sounds like you are at war with your builders and that never ends well as I’m sure you now realise.


This is true, but it's such a difficult balance to strike. With my project I've tried to be the friendly and likeable client working in partnership with the builders to achieve a positive outcome. I've made decisions promptly, been very organised and clear, and paid on time, while otherwise leaving them alone and making it clear that I trust them to do a good job. But I suspect that this has led to me being seen as easy going, and therefore more likely to suck up delays than some of their other less pleasant clients who they are just keen to move on from! Ultimately it's a business relationship, I suppose, and the most important thing is not to come across as a pushover. (Being a single woman probably doesn't help!)
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Posted: 03 September 2023 16:00:40(UTC)

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Zach F;278175 wrote:
You probably rubbed them up the wrong way with your tinfoil hat. Getting people to like you is key when they are working on your gaff. Sounds like you are at war with your builders and that never ends well as I’m sure you now realise.


What you say is very rarely the case with building work. You really need to be on top of things and as Sara mentions in her post, you really can't be seen as a pushover. You need to be demanding (realistically, according to what has been agreed) and critical to the work. I am not saying to do this in a rude way. You can do it in a firm but polite way. But certainly if you are seen as a pushover, most will take advantage.

End of the day it is a business relationship. Nothing more. Builders just use you for the cash flow and perhaps also to build reputation (although i can't seem to reconcile the repuational angle given the sh!tty service time and time again). And you use them to build you a house to your specs.

If anything we as customers or potential customers need to be very careful who we hire as builders and really assess progress, particularly at the start. So that if there are serious concerns you can try to end the business relationship quickly before further damage. Hopefully in this way all the cowboy builders and those who are crap can just go out of buisness so they stop inflicting stress and inconvience to people.
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NoMoreKickingCans on 04/09/2023(UTC)
Zach F
Posted: 03 September 2023 18:17:44(UTC)

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@ Rookie
Not sure I agree being personable and friendly would have you viewed as a pushover; it’s a business relationship but they are also human, if they don’t like you, they are much more likely to cut corners to get onto the next job. No one likes a toxic work environment.


@ Sara G
I sympathise with you re delays but from my experience that seems to be par for the course. I always triple builders time frames and even then I’ve been disappointed in the past. Hopefully the works are on a price and not day rate as that’s not a nice position to be in. Might seem a long way off but when it’s all complete it’s usually always worth it.
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Posted: 03 September 2023 19:31:57(UTC)

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Zach F;278206 wrote:
@ Rookie
Not sure I agree being personable and friendly would have you viewed as a pushover; it’s a business relationship but they are also human, if they don’t like you, they are much more likely to cut corners to get onto the next job. No one likes a toxic work environment.


@ Sara G
I sympathise with you re delays but from my experience that seems to be par for the course. I always triple builders time frames and even then I’ve been disappointed in the past. Hopefully the works are on a price and not day rate as that’s not a nice position to be in. Might seem a long way off but when it’s all complete it’s usually always worth it.


You're being hyperbolic to make your point. I never said you shouldn't be friendly or personable. Even if you have to pretend, you should be like this just to keep the peace to get the work done as expected. But there are times you need to be more direct and firm (but not in a rude or aggressive tone). These are a time when you assert your dominance (but in a good way) so they don't see you as a pushover (which is crucial). I suppose there is an art to this some people are good at, others not so much.

Then there are other times when you just lose all hope (which i suspect the OP is at and that so many others seem to end up in). These are the times you just need to get rid of them and you need to be aggressive (but not before you covered your bases, as much as you can, such as making sure work done so far leaves you not so much out of pocket and have another builder lined up as replacement).
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NoMoreKickingCans on 04/09/2023(UTC)
NoMoreKickingCans
Posted: 04 September 2023 19:50:32(UTC)

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Zach F;278175 wrote:
You probably rubbed them up the wrong way with your tinfoil hat. Getting people to like you is key when they are working on your gaff. Sounds like you are at war with your builders and that never ends well as I’m sure you now realise.

A bunch of assumptions. I don’t ‘wear my tinfoil hat’ with the builders because I don’t discuss or push anything to do with covid, lockdowns, mRNA vaccines, climate change or anything else controversial. There is a difference between posting on a forum people can choose to read or not and trying to convert everyone you meet to your own point of view like a religious zealot.

We have done all the stuff to try to establish human working relationships I’m afraid. Copious coffees, teas, biscuits, donuts etc. I bought an 18 year old lad fresh out of bricklaying school that they sent to site some bottled beer to celebrate laying his first professional block. Congratulated people on their weddings, offered sympathy for family funerals, and engaged in bits of friendly smalltalk, thanked them for their work. We have parked our car elsewhere and put cones out so they can park freely, bought tarps and plastic sheets, loaned use of a tool when they have been caught short, cleaned up the site numerous times, I have lifted carpets, and floorboards, moved furniture, kitchen appliances so they can work more easily. I have paid them promptly and not withheld payment when they bill 100% of elements only 80% complete.

In return they have lied to me many times, essentially abandoned site for 2 months (whilst always promising to come ‘next week’), treated the site like a rubbish tip, thrown cans of red bull and vapes into the works, shown zero regard whilst we went all through winter with no central heating, washing machine, or sink and my spouse went down with pneumonia.

Now I am paying high rates for some professional help and the pro tells me you have to be very very firm with them. Of course individuals vary and a couple have been helpful and are equally frustrated with the builder.

You can’t charm a builder into doing an excellent job for you.
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Sara G on 05/09/2023(UTC)
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