Hi Dennis,
I very much doubt that you will qualify for state-funded care.
Your local council will conduct a needs assessment when considering the amount of care you/your wife may need, this will include a financial assessment. In England currently, if your financial assets are worth more than £23,250, you will have to pay all care fees yourself.
If you / your wife deliberately try to reduce the value of assets to get below the £23,250 threshold, by say gifting money to children etc, it is likely to be considered “Deprivation of Assets”, the Local Authority will add back value of these assets to determine total value of assets in their means test.
I have no idea what other consequences there may be for being caught trying to "Deprive" assets in these circumstances (is it Financial Crime ?), or indeed, how thorough your Local Authority will be in their investigations. I imagine they probably make some assumptions about your personal wealth based on your address/postcode, they will seek to review bank statements, tax returns etc.
Regards